Forget the ball in Time Square. My favorite part of New Year’s is talking stalk of the past 365 days. I’m curious about your best and worst of 2009. A fan of delayed gratification, I’ll save my best for last:
#1 Sucky Times: My worst moments of 2009 were around illness. But not only mine. I spent a lot of time in the hospital with a close family member. It was totally new for me to be a caregiver instead of a patient. They both suck.
#2 Pissed Off and Outraged: In 2009, my blood boiled over the slanted reporting about the public option, and watching the cancer community totally skirt healthcare reform issues, doing next to nothing to advocate for us. How are any of us going to answer to our grandchildren about sitting by and watching tens of thousands of cancer patients die each year because of lack of access to care?
#3 Ass Kicking in Congress: My friend Lisa Friedman and I spent a day pounding down the doors of Congress this past spring, meeting with legislative aides, and having a fantastic talk with Kennedy’s folks. Young adult health care was our focus and we rocked.
#4 Mission Accomplished: I spent five years researching and writing Everything Changes. In February it hit the shelves of bookstores throughout the U.S., Canada, Australia, and the UK. I especially loved walking into Barnes and Nobel in Union Square in New York City and seeing it prominently displayed as a special pic read.
#5 Dream Come True: I don’t really have idols -well, except for Terry Gross. I’ve always dreamed of being a guest on Fresh Air. I soared with happiness after spending an hour and a half in an NPR studio recording an interview with her about young adult cancer that aired in September.
#6 Everything Changes: Two weeks ago, I had one of the best check ups out of my entire nine year career as a thyroid cancer patient. I sometimes have a hard time trusting good news. (Note to self to write a post about that.) But this time I have really soaked it up and am incredibly grateful. Though I hope I don’t jinx myself by writing this!
What were your highs and lows of 2009? Gimme your laundry list.